Good Marriage Counselor Nanaimo

Marriage Counselor

If you’re looking for a marriage counselor Nanaimo, please be aware that in Nanaimo marriage counselors have a dismal record for saving marriages. The fact of the matter is you and your spouse have the best chance of saving your marriage – all on your own. The great news is that when you set your minds to saving your marriage, you can make it happen 100% of the time. The only thing standing between you and a happy marriage is: 1) the knowledge of what to do, and 2) the will to do it.

Marriage counselors are usually trained psychologists who help people deal with their issues. But issues don’t interfere with a happy marriage. Issues are individual problems every single individual in the world has. If it were issues that prevented a happy marriage, there would be no such thing as a happy marriage because everyone has issues. The cause of marriage failure lies in not understanding what a marriage is.
Top Three Reasons to look for a Marriage Counselor:

  1. 1. to allow you to better deal with the strong emotions that are associated with problems in a marriage.
  2. 2. To help you find a path to a happy and satisfying marriage that you can be excited about.
  3. 3. To give you the tools you need to work on the problems in your marriage.

If you and your partner are able to cope with the emotions that problems in your marriage bring, to work towards a resolution to your problems and you have the tools to do this then you probably would not get a lot out of seeing a marriage counselor. Couples really need to try to work out their issues themselves first before seeing a marriage counselor. If you and your partner need help dealing with issues in your marriage, though, you should see a marriage counselor because the issues are not going to go away on their own.

What Should You Look for in a Marriage Counselor?

You can simply open up the phone book for your local area and choose a marriage counselor if you want to. You could also get a recommendation from a trusted religious leader or your doctor. The best way to find a marriage counselor is to talk to a friend or family member that has used a marriage counselor and has a much better relationship now. Not everyone is willing to talk about their experiences with a marriage counselor, though, so this is not always easy to do.

However, you go about selecting a marriage counselor it is important to choose wisely so you get someone that can really help you. The marriage counselor needs to be someone who you and your partner can be comfortable with so you both need to have input into the choice of the marriage counselor.

It is important to make sure any marriage counselor you select has the right credentials including a license and certification in family and marriage counseling.

When I began mediation it was overwhelmingly clear to me people really don’t want to get a divorce, they just don’t know what else to do. Would you get into an airplane and attempt to fly it if you had not read an instruction manual or taken any lessons?


If you are looking for a marriage counselor in Nanaimo perform a Google search for Maureen Adkin – marriage counselor Nanaimo.